I was recently asked if I had a “must-do list of habits” that keep my work and family life in balance. This is something I have thought about a lot lately. I left the corporate world of employment 2.5 years ago to pursue work/life balance. I had no idea what I really wanted to do when I left, I just knew that what I was doing was no longer working for me or my family.
Today I have much clearer sense of where I am and where I am headed, but I also have a deeper understanding of who I am. I work now out of my house and rarely travel unless I can combine it with visiting family. I do miss some of the interaction I had with business associates and even the thrill of conquering that next big task that might bring a promotion with it.
I have replaced that with a new network of business associates and friends. I have far less superficial relationships and have invested more in the people I do talk with. I look for work now that is project based and allows me the opportunity to make a difference in a community, to a small-medium business, or to a group of children. I make a lot less money but I have far less stress and a greater sense of satisfaction. I no longer look for a promotion but rather work to promote new ways of thinking or accomplishing more with less.
I do have a “must-do list” for keep some balance in the home and home office.
- Get up at the same time every day. Set the alarm and get up just as if you had to drive to the office.
- I have 4 children to get to school, so I have to get up, shower and get dressed before breakfast.
- After dropping off the kids I have time for news on TV and breakfast. This is also when I complete any chores I have for the morning.
- I officially walk into my office and turn on the computer, and open business for the day. If anyone is home they know that I am now working.
- I break for lunch every day and this is when I run errands or meet people for lunch. I make it a point to go out with people for lunch at least once a week.
- I am “off the clock” at 3 p.m. every day. This is when the children start to come home from school. I have a West Coast person (my sister) who works with me and she picks up where I left off at this time.
- I am back “on the clock” at 8 p.m. each night to close up any details from the day, set my priorities for the next day and respond to any emails I missed.
- I do have to make myself leave the computer around 10. I would just keep working otherwise. I also attend school online, which makes closing up for the night hard sometimes but I really do work to turn the system off by 10.
Joining networking groups that require you to be seen is also important. I recommend BNI or getting involved in your local communities small business organizations. The more you can do to structure outside the office time that balances your in the office time the less likely you are to find yourself feeling isolated or distracted by the many chores you can come up with in your house.
How you measure your business success will also dictate how you structure your business. I am more focused on my family than I am on driving revenue through bunches of customers. This means success to me is 2 or 3 client accounts that I can dedicate myself to and still leave plenty of time to make school plays, meet a child for lunch or take a school holiday off and go to the movies.
How do you measure your business success? What are your specific must do’s for a home office?
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